Dear Christine,
I AM WRITING this letter in connection with a cousin of mine. I hate “unfairness” and this is how he is being to a woman he is seeing from St Michael.
I do not know much about her but I can see she is a nice person and that she cares for him.
The thing is, Christine, he is also seeing a married woman who has him wrapped around her finger. You can see that she is way older than he is.
My cousin and my boyfriend work at the same place, and my cousin is always talking about the woman from St Michael.
He never says anything good about her and he tells a lot of lies.
My boyfriend had to tell him what he is doing to this woman is wrong, and he stopped speaking to my boyfriend and me.
Christine, this married woman comes every Thursday night for her $150 and she does not do anything for him – apart from give him sex. On the other hand, the woman from St Michael does anything for him.
His mother, who says she is a Christian, encourages this married woman to sleep at her house because she buys a lot of different things for her.
Right now my cousin has the woman from St Michael as though she is going out of her head. She hardly sees or hears him.
Christine, why do men treat women who love and care about them so badly?
I always say that God does not sleep and He does not like ugly. What goes around, comes around.
Another thing, Christine, this man’s sister lives in the same house as he does and she does not like this married woman at all.
In fact, this married woman does not have any respect. She gets on however she likes when she is having sex in the house, where a little girl lives.
– L.W.
Dear L.W.,
I have listened to all that you have said but my main concern is not what the adults are doing, but how what they are doing can affect that young child.
I believe that this man’s sister should speak to him about his lifestyle.
Other than that, there is really not much advice I can give since the man, the married woman or the St Michael woman were not the ones who wrote me. I would say, however, that the St Michael woman should try to get out of the relationship.
Maybe you should have a “woman to woman” talk with her to open her eyes to what is taking place right under her nose.
– CHRISTINE
