Dear Christine,
THERE ARE TEARS flowing down my face as I write this letter to you. I met a man I later grew to love. I thought he was a “real” man but now I know better.
He was married and his wife cheated on him. Every woman he has had since then also cheated on him.
I now know why. He does not have a good mind. He only cares about himself and what his friends think.
I speak my mind and he cannot handle that. We have been together for six years and I have never cheated. However, he would make you cheat on him because he is selfish.
We have two children and I found out with our last child that he gave me herpes. He gave it to me, and I only found out when I went to a private doctor.
Christine, we are still together but his friends and family rule his life. I, on the other hand, love this old fool and would not pass my sickness on to anyone.
Christine, what has me so angry is that he has destroyed my life. I cannot get any more children and would never have another man as long as I live. I am hurting so much that the words I would like to say, you would not allow me to say.
I want to tell people out there, before they get involved with any man or woman, get tested. Herpes is not easy. A lot of people have it and can easily pass it on through kissing, oral sex, or sex of any kind. He knows that at I am writing to you.
My message to him is: “You have hurt me and done me wrong. You will meet it in the worst way.
You bastard! Not even your mother and father wanted you.
“I am the only woman who has ever truly loved you and you threw it all away. You will die old and alone. Take that!” – ANGRY
Dear Angry,
You have not asked for any specific kind of advice. I guess you just wanted to vent your anger. Hopefully, you have been able to do that, and this man will see the statements you have directed to him.
When things like these happen we can be quick to point fingers, but just remember, we are ultimately responsible for each choice we make or decision we take.
What I cannot understand is why you would still be with a man who has made you sick; a man you consider to be a bastard and one who is selfish, according to your statements? You also claim to “love this old fool.” Are you sure he is the one who is a fool?
CHRISTINE
