DEAR CHRISTINE, I NEED some advice. I am 20 years old and in love with a guy who is also my age. It’s two years we were friends. I got pregnant for him and will be giving birth soon. We were getting along very well until two months after I became pregnant.
At that time, this guy started going out with every girl. He goes everywhere and comes home when he cares to.
He does not visit me as often as he used to and he does not take me anywhere.
He even stopped me from going anywhere. He tells me what he likes and I am not supposed to tell him back anything.
God knows he is the only man I want in my life.
I see no other man on earth but him and often wonder why he had to change this way.
– AP
Dear AP,
Do you really think that this is the only man for you?
I hope your vision will improve and you can start seeing that there are many men who are more deserving of your notice than this irresponsible, uncaring young man.
If you start giving some serious thought to the kind of fellow he is you’ll see he’s really the last man you want in your life. His early attentions which probably made him very attractive to you were his means of getting you sufficiently involved.
He is not lovable and you are simply wasting your time and youth on him.
With the baby soon due and while you have to take care of it, you won’t be able to go around as you would probably like to, but within your limited ability to move around meet and speak to people.
Don’t let him who led you in the wrong direction in the first place continue to run your life.
– CHRISTINE