DEAR CHRISTINE, I am 15 years old and still attend school. My problem is that I fell in love with this guy and we had sex many times.
I enjoyed it very much but I am now worried as I have missed my menstrual cycle for a month. I feel as though I am pregnant.
Christine, I am doing quite well at school and would hate to have my dreams shattered by becoming pregnant. It would also hurt my parents quite a lot since they have deep faith and confidence in me to do the right thing all the time.
I really do not know how I can face them if I am indeed pregnant. This thing is driving me out of my mind. Please advise me what to do as soon as possible.
– TEEN GIRL
Dear Teen Girl,
As to whether or not you’re pregnant can only be determined by a doctor. I would advise you to see one as soon as possible.
If you are indeed pregnant, you should then report this to your parents. I doubt very much they’ll be happy over your news, especially if the young man responsible is unable or willing to do anything about it.
It’s a pity when children like you (and yes, you are still a child) place yourselves in positions where you have to face the problems of early parenthood. You neither have the ability or knowledge to bring up a child. If someone does not come to your rescue (most likely your parents), both you and the innocent child have a hard road ahead of you.
Check yourself out professionally, and do that right away asI have suggested.
I’m sorry if I am wrong in thinking that you cannot expect much or any help from the young man.
The record shows that they are likehit-and-run drivers. They will stay with you until the trouble they create begins . . . and then they are gone. For your sake I sincerely hope that I am wrong.
– CHRISTINE