Dear Christine,
I an not from your country, but I know I can find your answers online. Please help me.
I am 18 years old and have been going out with my boyfriend for about a year. A few months ago we started having sex and since then, we’ve been having sex every day, sometimes four times a day.
Christine, I don’t want to be doing this so regularly, but my boyfriend seems to want to all the time. I like making love with him, but not all the time. He says it’s special and meaningful, but it’s starting to seem like he’s using me.
The other day, I told him I didn’t want to do it but it happened anyway. I didn’t resist, so it wasn’t like he raped me or anything, but it wasn’t right. What should I do?
– N.A.
Dear N.A.,
You’ve found yourself a sex machine and it’s time you wake up to the fact that what you’re experiencing is not love. You’re being used and treated like a convenience, not a person.
When a person says “no” to sex, it means “no”. If the partner goes ahead anyway and still has sex with you, it can count as rape.
I don’t know how you’re going to do it, but you’ve got to end this relationship. Right now, you are this guy’s sex slave.
– CHRISTINE
