Dear Christine,
I am having a problem with a woman.
I am a female too, but this woman is a lesbian. She has been running me down, turning up at my school, calling me on my home number – which she got from my sister through deceit, and she does not hesitate to tell me whenever she gets the chance that she loves me and she wants me.
I do not know who to talk to. Most people know that this woman loves girls. My parents are also aware of this but she is a friend of my family. I am sure when I tell them what this woman is doing, they will not be friends with her anymore.
Christine, I need to know what to do. Help me, because I am not interested in this woman. I am 15 years old.
– T.R.
Dear T.R.,
At your age you are still considered a minor. You need to tell your parents what this woman is doing. Let them decide how to deal with her. Don’t cover up for her.
You should tell your parents and your teacher as well.
Statistics have shown that many people who attempt to have sexual relations with minors, or those who rape, are known by their victims.
You have done nothing to encourage this woman and you would have done nothing wrong when you report her behaviour to your parents and teacher.
Don’t put up with her sexual advances anymore. You never know when she will actually strike.
– CHRISTINE
