Saturday, June 13, 2026

DEAR CHRISTINE: Trying to get her attention

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DEAR CHRISTINE, Please permit me some space in your column to express myself.

There is a young woman whom I admire day after day but I find it hard to go up to her and at least give her my name.

This woman catches the Pine/Wildey route vans. I get a chance to see her because I also ride on that route on my way home. I live in Upper Collymore Rock.

She does not wear a uniform with a crest so I have no idea where she works. She is usually quiet, is probably between the ages of 30 and 36 and mostly wears her hair in one.

She is of a dark completion, attractive and is always nicely dressed. On some occasions she is accompanied by a young girl, whom I’ve learned is her niece.

Christine, I long to introduce myself to her one day, but I am very shy and don’t want her to dismiss me. What can I do to get her attention? Chances are, she may have a boyfriend and that concerns me a bit also. She may not be interested in me. Help, please!

– M.K.

Dear M.K.,

If you sometimes catch the same minibus home, I’m thinking that would be a great opportunity to strike up a conversation with this woman whom you are admiring from a distance. As long as you are not stalking her, I see no harm in you doing just what I have said.

It may seem odd at first, but there are lots of things you can find to talk about, as long as you at least strike up that conversation.

I wish you success.

– CHRISTINE

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