Dear Christine,
I HAVE BEEN DATING this guy for the past six months and he is trying to pressure me to give in to his demands. He feels that it is time we become intimate and has stated that this is the norm in relationships.
I am 37 years old and have had one intimate relationship previously. The man got what he wanted on two occasions because I was trusting and felt that he had good intentions. I am not prepared to let anyone get honey from the hive for nothing.
This man has not declared his intentions although I have hinted my expectations – marriage first. He has a number of good qualities and seems as if he would make a good partner. But I am adamant. What should I do?
– Miss Pride
Dear Miss Pride,
You have quite clearly outlined where you stand and your position on this matter. You are not doing anything wrong by living up to what you believe in.
If this man truly cares for you and is serious about your relationship, he will appreciate your position. If he wants to stick around, then he will clearly accept your demands. Many other women need to follow in your footsteps.
– Christine
