WOMEN LIKE TO SAY how men are dogs and that there are no more good men available. But as a man who has been searching for a proper woman to settle down with for years, I can say the only women I’ve met are gold-diggers interested only in what they can get from me.
In the last three years alone I went out with two women and both of them were all about their needs only.
That is why I get ticked off whenever I read the foolishness in this column about men horning women or doing other unfair things to them. Just because women keep noise often does not mean they are in the majority when it comes to being treated unfairly.
In fact, I feel if I could get more men to talk about what happened to them, the public would be surprised how many men get hurt and how often it happens.
But men don’t speak out about these things because of their pride. They don’t ever like to admit they were fooled by a woman. To reveal that, the average man would come over as a weakling and thereafter be ridiculed by other men. That is why it always seems that just women go through this thing.
In my case, I can write a book. I was involved with a woman who went to the church I used to go to. She had two children and said she was finished with men as she had been hurt twice after giving them her all.
As she was 33 years old and had come to that conclusion, I figured she was a good person who had been treated badly.
We began courting and after just four months I realized why those men left her. She was possessive and jealous. She always wanted to know where I was when she called me, who I was with, when I would be coming by her, and without fail would want me to buy something for her or her children.
After nearly seven months of courting I called it quits because I could not see a future with her, given her ways.
But when I told her I was finished, that’s when I saw who she truly was. She said all I wanted from her was sex and because she tried to be a good Christian and refused my advances, I left her.
That was not true but everybody seemed to believe her because, as usual, men are no good and do such things.
Truth be told, within two months of us talking seriously, we were having sex. But she had to save her reputation and did it by tarnishing mine. That is what some women do. So I left that church.
The next woman I became involved with did not attend a church but seemed responsible as she had a mortgage, a good job and a child. Our relationship took a while to get going but after about four months of courting, we became friendly.
The sex was good and I enjoyed her company, but she was always very private and would sometimes be unavailable for hours at a time, especially on weekend nights. And each time I wondered what she had been up to, she would always say she was with her girlfriend.
Since the two of them were very close, I never worried very much about her explanations until a friend of mine put me on my guard. He told me that he heard I was friendly with her, but I should know she had been dealing with a certain married man for years. And he told me where to go to see them together.
At first I did not believe him, but curiosity got the best of me and I went to a certain bar one night where I saw the two of them together. As she did not see me I waited until the following day to ask her if she was at her girlfriend’s as usual, to which she said yes.
That’s when I told her I had seen her and I was not going to let her make a fool of me. I was looking for her to say something or show some remorse. Instead, she said she would never leave the man and if I couldn’t live with that, no problem.
These are just the things that happened to me recently. Years ago I was horned by my child’s mother.
I can tell you even more stories about what men, whom I know, went through at the hands of women.
I hope more men will write in and set the record straight on this situation, thereby putting the lie to this idea of only men being bastards.