Dear Christine,
This letter is for those women who are having affairs with men who are married and believe that they will leave their wives and children to be with them.
In fact, even if they do, most of them return to their families. What is wrong with our women? Can’t they see that most of the time these men are just using them for sex or whatever it is the women are offering?
Many of these men claim that they and their wives are not in anything; that they do not sleep in the same bed and that they do not take the wives anywhere.
These are usually lies. They sleep in the same bed with their wives, and the family has fun together.
You won’t believe that they are the same men you meet when they are out. These men look after their homes and their wives. They simply tell the (outside) women what they want to hear.
I think that women who go out with married men, or who want to leave their husbands for other men, ought to know that these men will never really trust them.
They will always think that they (the women) will treat them the same way.
Come on, women, stop letting the men walk all over you with their puppy love.
– M.L.
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 Dear M.L.,
Your letter is certainly food for thought for women who are easily enticed through flattery, or are being courted by men who are already married.
I would want to add that it should also prick the conscience of those men who are guilty of leading on women, when they know full well that their intentions for these women are not honourable and can never truly be, unless they hurt the very ones they love.
I am one who believes that if each man would be faithful and committed to his own wife, and each wife would be faithful and committed to her own husband, we wouldn’t have many of the relationship problems which exist within marriages.
Again, I hope that readers would garner something from what you’ve written.
– CHRISTINE Â
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