Dear Christine,
Please help me if you can because I really need it.
Christine, I had a woman that would do or give me anything.
As long as she was working, she made sure my car was full of gas and money was in my pocket. Even if she would not eat, she would make sure I do.
I used to play around and she caught me and forgave me.
Christine, she wanted me to be loving and caring. I was all this to the mother of my child and I got hurt.
We still talk whenever she wants something for my son.
I love my son very much. He is 20 years old. His mother did not know I was seeing someone else and I still do not want her to know, as it might change things between us; like if I ask her for anything, she might say no.
My friend and I broke up because my son had a birthday party and he invited me. I told my friend I was going to the beach with my son. However, I picked up both my son and his mother. My friend found out but I told her I had no idea the mother was going.
Christine, my friend is such a nice person that when we first started to talk she told me that any time my son or his mother called for me, I should go to them. How many women would say that?
Christine, the things my friend has done for me no other person has ever done. If my car wanted a tyre, she would simply ask how much it costs.
I would like to take my friend to meet my son’s mother, but I cannot.
I want to beg my friend to take me back. Christine, this has been a month since we were apart.
I am back home, Christine. My friend was without a partner for five years before we got together. She would never hide anything from me. She is so loving; always ready to hug and kiss. All she ever asked of me was not to lie to her. Christine, she is the kind of woman any man would want.
Do you think she would take me back? Can you help me to get her back? Please help me if you can or please tell me what to do. I have not been able to function since she put me out.
Sometimes I tell myself I do not deserve her.
Why can’t I give her what she wants if my child’s mother and I are finished?
– ?
Dear ?,
The same question you’re asking me I’d like to throw back at you. Why can’t you introduce your friend to the mother of your child? What’s keeping you from doing so?
From what you have written – even those things I have not published – your friend was very good to you, but you simply took her for granted. It is not enough to want to be with this woman because she literally “supports and looks out for you”.
You said she forgave you before and maybe she will forgive you again, but if she does not decide to take you back, you must find the strength to go on with the rest of your life. I believe you know that you have not been honest with this woman.
I cannot ask her to take you back; that should be left entirely up to her.
However, if she decides to give you another chance, do as she does, and don’t hide anything from her.
– CHRISTINE