Tuesday, April 28, 2026

DEAR CHRISTINE: I do not want his child

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Dear Christine.
I hope this letter finds you in a good health.
I am writing this letter because I am pregnant for my boyfriend and want to have an abortion. I don’t believe in abortions but let me explain my reasons.
I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. We have been really good together. He is also good with my three children. You see, Christine, I have been worried about our relationship for a while now. The job he has allows him to be out there and he is able to meet all types of people.
His animal nature takes him wherever he goes most of the time. I found out that this man is sleeping with women all over the place, but all he keeps telling me is it is not him, and that he sees no one but me. I decided to do my own investigations only to find out that he is doing all this and gets home ninety-nine per cent of the nights.
Christine, I also found out that he does not want to have sex with some of these women but performs oral sex on them and that’s it. One woman told me that was all he does with her. She wanted to know if he can perform. This man knows how to charm the women.
He is a smooth talker, good-looking, a darkie and, believe me, anything he says sounds like the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I decided to go to the doctor as I was not feeling well only to find out that I have an infection.
I don’t sleep around so the only person I could have caught it from was him. I decided to talk to him about this. I told him what the doctor said, and asked if he was still going to tell me that he has not been sleeping around. Tears fell from his eyes as he told me he was (he only cried because he got caught). I asked him if he knew who gave it to him and he held down his head and said no.
I asked him, “Are you telling me you out there dealing with more than one woman?”
He told me he was sorry and then said yes. I told him it was over between us, but he said he would not let me go. Christine, God is good. It could have been worse. I want nothing to do with him. I want these women out there to be careful of this horseman. Don’t get trapped by him like I did. His tongue is sweet like the devil’s. This means he is not good. A lot of women out there know that men have women at home but they get involved just to prove a point.
Ladies, remember: proving points just to have another woman’s man can cost you your life. If you know this man, get tested for STDs. He is not going to tell you because he does not know who to start with.
 – ?
Dear ?,
I have chosen not to respond to your letter in full because you have already made up your mind to leave this man.
I can only hope that your letter further warns women about getting involved with men they know very little about.
As far as the pregnancy goes, I myself would say not to get rid of your unborn baby. He or she is innocent. Personally, I cannot honestly advise you to get an abortion and live with myself. Please rethink this before making that choice. Allow that child to live. Give him or her a future.
– CHRISTINE

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