DEAR CHRISTINE, I AM 19 years old and in love with a 25-year-old married man. We have been going around for six months. I love this man a great deal and he loves me also.
We go to a lot of places together and he says he does not care who sees us. He even comes to my home. I introduced him to my parents as my boyfriend and they are very proud of him, but they do not know that he is married, or else they would be mad at me.
My parents are married and they both have good jobs.
I also have a good job as well as this married man and his wife. How can I tell my parents that he is married? He takes me to work every morning and picks me up every evening. He has two children from his wife. One is three years old and the other is three months old, but he spends most of his time at my house.
Christine, he says there is nothing that could part us.
I am nice-looking, and have a very shapely body. Many guys are after me, but I just don’t want anyone but my married man. Please tell me what you think.
– BB
Dear BB,
I am having a hard time trying to figure out why you wrote this letter in the first place.
Is it so you can brag about having someone else’s husband? Is it to brag about how you have your parents believing that this man is free and easy? Or, is it just because you are too blind to see that what you are doing is wrong?
You two sound ideally suited to each other. It’s just a matter of time that his unfaithfulness will wander to someone else and your good looks and shapely body lose their charm.
You are both very selfish and uncaring about the hurt and embarrassment you are inflicting on his and your own family.
I don’t think you need advice. You just want to show off your mean achievements. I doubt they will last.
– CHRISTINE
